Listen, I am going to get down and dirty with you. I am right there with you as you start putting your blocks into place.

A very real question is, what’s got your attention? You’re looking for something of a contradiction, aren’t you? You know you finally want that calm demeanor though you need the energy, the "joie de vivre", that had you pushing the limits just yesterday. Where is that energy? Is your own sense of direction murky? I got you.

Have you finally realized that what you’re doing is actually really difficult? Have you historically put on that Stoic self-guided mask and set out to prove something to everyone? This is where the critical role of The Outsider comes in. Rob is The Outsider, the force that both encourages broad-mindedness and hones your vision and the presence of mind for it to become refined and achievable.

As many folks as you have around you, do they allow you the breadth of your vision? Those folks, many of them, are dependent on you. They want you to succeed and they know your decisions will effect them. You know your decisions will effect them! They’re not wrong about that and you become burdened with this rational consideration. You desire the freedom to truly explore your strengths and check your objectives. Yep, that’s the time for The Outsider.

I want to hear from you. I know my role and that is to motivate, sure… to challenge, sure… and to be present with you as you grow into the courageous person that you sometimes see in the mirror.